The Art of Saying "YES" Too Fast
Assalam Untung lah if you got to read this entry. Am sharing a (vulnerable) bit of mine. A habit yang selalu end up bikin jiwa kacau. Alkisahnya, I have this reflex where, the moment someone shares an idea that sounds fascinating or meaningful, I immediately say yes. No internal meeting. No proper evaluation. My heart just jumps in first. If it feels exciting, impactful, aligned with purpose — I’m sold. Agreement given. Commitment emotionally stamped. Brain? Hmm..still buffering. Sebab hati duluan menjawab "YA" tanpa consult akal fikir. Haru!! Then a few days later, when the idea starts turning into actual action — timelines, responsibilities, maybe even my name officially attached to it — suddenly I freeze. “Eh, Kijap!! Apa benda juga ni? Do I actually know how to do this?” Time ni mulalah gelabah take over, parking chantekk ja dalam kepala. Mulalah replay the conversations I had in my head, trying to remember if I really agreed or if it was just enthusiastic nodding. Mulala...
